Category: Dating and Relationships
What kind of things would you like to try out that you have fanticised about?
Back in my much younger days, I often fantasised about playing with a teacher on his desk in an empty classroom. These days, I don't guess I have any burning fantasies.
Barefoot water skiing.
I've done it with the skis, but barefoot would be cooler.
I've dreamed about it once or twice.
The boat would need to be pretty powerful, and that be exciting too.
I once was given the wheel of a forest rangers rig on a really bigt lake.
That was an experience.
These things can go!
Forgot to say. Barefoot skiing is absolutely sexy.
Smile.
Saving a life.
Maybe my thoughts don't belong here since this is the dating and relationships board and I don't play that game.
Some of my fantasies lately are so violent that I'm uncomfortable posting the details. These are things I would never want to do in real life. They're never sexual either, just gory daydreams where I do awful things to deserving people. Now that I don't think anyone is listening I do a much worse job of suppressing them.
Hang gliding. I'd rather hang glide than sky dive. Hang gliding would give you a limited perspective on what it's like to fly like a bird.
I'd like to do soul travel or astro projection.
I agree with Anthony. Hang gliding would be a fun experience! It sounds very calming, and also a great way to just unwind while you contemplate life and it's many idiosyncrasies and many pleasures as you glide along in the clouds with the sun shining on my face. I put that as number one on my bucket list! I can't wait to experience it one day soon! :)
Another fantasy of mine is staying up all night in a café talking or just talking under the stars with the person you love holding them close, just drinking in their words as you hold him or her depending on your preference, and just listening to their heart beat as their head leans on your chest.
Love to all and positivity and white light.
Your friend
poetry in motion
Poor boys topic got all sidetracked. *grin*
my fantacy is to eat a big bowl of Knorr Cheddar Broccoli and rice. It's about to come true! The rice is in the microwave now. excuse me while I live out my fantasy.
Lol Wayne. Just goes to show how much humans will fantasize about things,
only we give special attention to the sexual fantasies, both negative and more
negative attention, and maybe sometimes a little positive ... lol
But yeah we human apes tend to fantasize about a whole hell of a lot of things.
Here's an odd one from my growing up:
I was a tree climber as a kid. So I always fantasized about being able to climb
some really tall tree, only to find myself in a new world up there, where the
ground was wicker, or "woven twigs" as I called it then. And everything was all
woven together but kind of elastic so you could jump around defying gravity.
Even cities and stuff up there. The fantasy did what fantasies do; it morphed
over time with new ideas and exposure to new things.
I bring it up because it's got all the high resolution detail of any sexual fantasy,
minus the physical rush of course. But I do so to prove we human apes
fantasize about a whole hell of a lot of stuff. We've just tied "fantasy" with sex
only, and usually as a way to instigate a taboo.
But in all practicality, what's the real difference between someone's elaborate
sex fantasy, and another equally unrealistic elaborate fantasy like the "twig"
world? Why is one "innocent" and the other "dirty?" Because your academics,
your church and your state say so?
Is it because that fantasy "doesn't match reality?" I'm going out on a limb here
but I bet my fantasy about hang gliding doesn't really match what hang gliding
feels like. I envision things differently than Poetry in Motion said. But the
fantasy is itself nice, and the real event might well be nice, might not. But it
would be different from the fantasy.
I admit plainly that I fantasize often. About a whole host of things I know to not
be realistic. Well, things I thought weren't realistic, although sometimes I find
out that they are, like the buildings they now have constructed out of pure ice.
Perhaps the notion of some people having the ability to fly will not be unrealistic
someday either.
I think the original poster was pretty bold to put this out, even if the topic has
taken a different turn. Know this, as someone who fantasizes a lot, and I do
mean a lot, about a whole host of different things and environments, I'm last in
line to jump on the control-centric power-centric taboo bandwagon in shaming
other people for doing it.
I've done both hang gliding and skydiving. Loved both of 'em. If I could choose I'd probably want to hang glide again because it lasts longer.
Like imp, I've done sky diving, and it was fucking awesome! But also like Leo, I'd love to hang-glide. I've also tried to imagine what parasailing would be like. Pretty much if it involves flying, I've fantasized about it, because I'm fascinated with the idea of having the ability to fly.
Leo, I love your tree city concept. That's really cool! I too, fantasize a lot, both about sexual and nonsexual things. I don't think there is anything wrong with fantasy, so long as you still know how to live in the real world, and find a healthy balance between the two. I've known people to get so caught up in a given fantasy they honestly start to believe it's real, and then that can cause problems. But fantasies simply demonstrate that someone has a creative mind, and usually that's a good thing, again depending on what use you put it to.
And what should make nonsexual fantasies right, and sexual ones wrong? The same thing applies: as long as you don't allow the sexual ones to cause you to hurt someone or cross some illegal line, like anything involving children, or anything nonconsensual, I don't see what the problem is. That, and if you have a partner who is as much of a creative mind as yourself, it can lead to great role-play. So if that's the case, then have a blast.
Wow this is getting really neat, like the different spins on different topics, wasn't sure ware this was going to go but love what is happening. Agree on the fanticy as long as you can keep it in the right place. I haven't done skydiving but would love to try it. also I have always want to be on a space launch Also don't mind sexual fantisies either but do want to keep those in the right place.
Leo I've actually gotten the opposite impression - that sexual fantasies are normal and healthy for adults but nonsexual ones are somehow incomplete or childish.
Voyager's got a point. Usually when people think about adults having fantasies, they think they have to be sexual. Anything else is viewed as childish.
Agreed, Voyager.
I'd love to soul travel, skydive, hangglide, and bungee jump. Also, dancing, like really dancing well in many different forms in front of a huge audience.
I've done that thing where you're strapped in a chair and then flung with a bungee cord. You flip and rooll and all sorts of stuff..it's wild.
Always wanted to skydive though, and one day I'm gonna do it. Might try scuba-diving too. I suppose these are more wishes than fantasies.
I used to fantasize about singing or playing drums onstage just once for a really well-known band. Never happen, but a guy can dream.
Interesting topic. I will note though that it seems to have been transformed from a dating and relationships topic to a generalized fantasy topic, but that’s okay since I’ll do mine in two parts:
First the adult fantasy. It just so happens that the guy I’m interested in is in a wheelchair. So, my favorite fantasy involves us being on an elevator; just the two of us. We’re in a high-rise complex of some sort, and the power goes out and we’re trapped in the elevator. Natch, we have to find something to do, so I give him the best blowjob he’s ever had. I guess it’s the thrill of possibly getting caught that does it for me.
Now, as for more way-out ones that don’t involve anything real, I guess I’ve had several over the years. Like finding a whole horde of treasure in the backyard of my childhood home; this was sort of a popular one when I was around ten or so. When I was even younger I liked to do a lot of sledding. Mind you, I was about eight or nine when I first developed this one. The hill I would slide on had such magical properties that whenever I slid down it, I would always take a different path. No two were the same. Sometimes I’d slide for only a few minutes,, but sometimes it was for a few hours. I’d always end up back at the top of the hill eventually so that I could easily get home. It was the thrill of the trip more than anything,, and I’d always imagine different ones.
Still another involved having a sort of control panel in my room with all these buttons, dials and switches. It was right between my dresser and my bedroom door. Anyway, the positions you could turn them to, the number of combinations of switches you could throw were virtually infinite, and they all opened up these doorways to infinite realms. In my imaginings, instead of sleeping at night,, I’d play with this control panel to see where I’d end up. I’d be gone from about 9:30 or 10:00 at night until about 6:00 or 6:30 in the morning. It would all be good since I didn’t need sleep.
Another one that I still have from time to time involves a spin-off of a story I once heard when I was a kid. There was this guy who could make anything happen just by speaking the words out loud and then saying go. He could make virtually any wish of his come true. I definitely wish I had that power. I’d create my own alternate universe where I went back in time and lived the kind of life I wanted. Maybe I’d start from about the age of eight or nine, because I’m sure I’d be a lot smarter and do everything right. Plus, I could set my universe up the way I wanted where some people would be better than they were in this one. Some relationships would be different. I’d be a little better-looking, have more confidence and I wouldn’t live in a world with so many hang-ups about some things.
i dunno i guess i have many sexual fantasies, and although some of them
definitely could be lived out it is not a given they will until i find the right
partner,
one of them is, take him, tie him down, and make him orgasm over and over
and over until he simply can't do it anymore.
some of my other fantasies are more submitting and only for the right one :)
Wow this topic is really taking some interesting twists. Wasn't sure ware it was going to go but like what is going on. Agreed it is taking on some interesting sub topics. Also Think that I have heard people say that about non sexual fantisies. That they are childish, I think its just a way to explore your imagination and that's the fun part.
well fantasies is fantasies, and what do i mean by that?
That some is best kept as a fantasy, i do dream about things i would having
done to me but it is never something i would live out, but it is on the other
site something that really gets me going because deeply within side my mind i
know that they will stay fantasies forever.
And that is mainly how i use them.
Here i am only talking sexual fantasies because i have the means to live
almost anything else out.
I have a few ones that could be fun to explore, running through Buds for the
Seals could be interesting, but it is not likely i can do that since you have to
be a male to get in. So that is sadly not an option.
Hmm, a very neat topic! I think it is interesting and I have to say I give hats off to voyager about what they said concerning adult fantacies. If they're sexual that's fine, but anything else is childish I just don't agree with that!
I remember as a kid having my, "hideout," in the woods. It was just a clearing surrounded by thick trees and it wasn't real deep in the woods it just looked that way cause of the trees. I would go to the clearing and pretend/fantacy that I was camping..building a fire..that I really lived there with nature. It was so cool!
I really want to sky dive someday. Also hang glide would be really cool!
I also have a fantacy of doing something awesome and getting lots of praise and people being like, "wow, how'd she do that? cool!" Like I would do something that no one else could or thought of and it isn't just cause I'm blind they would ignore that.
Though I know that'll not happen still nice to think about.
As far as sexual fantacies go..I'm honestly not sure. I mean I know I have those but I can't think of any at the moment lol.